GROW—But Grow the Right Way

Growth.

It’s the goal, the dream, the metric, the buzzword.

As business owners, we’re constantly told to chase more — 

  • MORE clients 

  • MORE revenue 

  • MORE followers 

  • MORE offers

  • MORE speed 

The hustle is loud, and if we’re honest, it can be hard to know whether we’re running toward something… or just running and running on autopilot.

We’re pressing pause on the glorification of fast growth and leaning into something deeper:

Aligned growth. Sustainable growth. The kind of growth that feels like you.

Because growing the right way means more than hitting your goals — it means building something you can actually live inside of.

Is This Growth Aligned?

Not all growth is created equal.

Sometimes we say yes to things that look like growth on paper — a high-paying client, a new service, a sudden audience spike — only to feel disconnected or burned out after the fact. Growth without intention can leave you feeling trapped in a business that no longer fits YOU.

Here are a few grounding questions to check in with this season:

Am I growing toward what I actually want — or what I think I should want?

Really ask yourself; is this direction aligned with my vision, values, and capacity? Or is it driven by comparison, pressure, or fear?

Are my systems and support team ready to hold this growth?

More clients? Great. But do your operations, automations, and team have the foundation to handle the weight of more without breaking?

What does success look like to me right now — not five years ago, and not five years from now?

Success evolves. Give yourself permission to re-define it based on your current life season, priorities, and energy.

Fast Isn’t Always Strong. And Slow Isn’t a Failure.

There’s a myth in the entrepreneurial world that faster = better. But we’ve seen too many business owners crash under the weight of momentum they weren’t actually ready for. At Iris, we believe in the power of roots before reach.

You don’t need to hustle harder. You need to build a business that serves your life.
— Tori Dunlap (Her First $100K founder, financial feminist)
  • Fast growth without a foundation often leads to burnout.

  • Slow growth with depth, clarity, and sustainability leads to long-term ease.

Healthy things grow. But they grow with roots. And that’s what we want for you.

Build Space for Reflection

Want to check in with your growth goals? Try this:

Each Friday, ask yourself:

“What moved me closer to aligned growth this week? What pulled me away?”

Write it down. Voice memo yourself. Whatever works for you. You’ll start to notice patterns — the clients that energize you, the offers that drain you, the habits that support or sabotage your focus. Use those insights as your compass.


A Note from Team Iris

We’re not here to push you into bigger. We’re here to walk alongside you toward better. Growth that feels spacious. Grounded. Right.

We hope you find peace in the pace you’re meant to move at — not the one you’re pressured to chase.

You are still learning. You’ve got this. And we’ve got you.

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